We all get a little free time on our hands every now and then. We all have different things we try to get done during this free time. Many of us chose to make the best of it while others use this time to shout from the roof tops, just how miserable they are.
Well, I personally have found that using the extra time to listen to those who need an ear can be very fulfilling. Spreading the word about important issues like Truckers Against Trafficking is another thing we like to do. It’s all about improving morale and trying to make a difference. After all, we run into people every day that are depressed, lonely and misinformed through no fault of their own. Sometimes all they need is some helpful information and an ear to bend.
Then there are the people we run into that are not part of trucking but may need someone to talk to. There’s the nursing home with people who may have never had a visitor that would love a hug or the kids running around the motel you might be staying in for the night that would love a coloring book and some crayons because their parents have fallen on hard times.
Why, you may ask should we and do we take the time to do these thing? Well, for one thing, it feels good. Making others smile gives us such a great feeling.
There’s a catch though!! You must never expect recognition for these good deeds. Ulterior motives behind your kindness won’t give you the same feeling of satisfaction as just giving to give! You WILL, however face others that will always be wondering in the back of their mind, just what it is you stand to gain by your actions. IGNORE THEM….. No matter what your religious background, you will get great satisfaction, mentally and spiritually from being a loving and giving person!
As truckers, traveling around the country, day after day, there are so many things we can do and say that will forever touch someone. Yes, there are quite a few problems with our industry but there are many problems all around as well. If we focus only on ourselves, we may miss an opportunity that could positively affect us for life!
When we meet people who ask us about our life on the road, I ask them how much time they have! The reason is because through the years we have figured out on our own just how to make this life on the road a fulfilling one. From talking to new drivers to listening to the stories of old timers, we never get tired of the people we meet. Yes, we have run into a few that for one reason or another, we no longer associate with but this could happen in any industry. So in other words, I’m not saying that you have to remain friends with everyone you meet because sometimes personalities can clash, so it’s ok to pick and choose.
Many people consider us advocates for the industry. I guess we are but there’s more to it than that. We do not focus on particular issues or causes. What we do is try to gather accurate information to pass along to others who can use it. We try to set a good example so that when Non truckers meet us, they leave with a good feeling about truckers, rather than the more popular view that truckers are, well, you know what I mean!
So anyway, I guess my message here is for those of you who find yourself bored, unsatisfied or even angry about your own situation, find a way to make someone else smile. Whether it be another trucker or visiting the local nursing home or hospital, there’s always going to be some out there that would be happy to get a smile, a funny story and even a hug!
Do something to make a difference!
Give of yourself!
GOD Bless you ALL
Jim & Jan
That is an excellent way to live life. It is the perfect sentiment for the holidays and really for everyday. I feel like many people are not doing so well and it can seem kind of overwhelming. You make a point to do what you can. I am thinking if all of us did that, things would be better. Thank You.